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Dating Tips For Men - 7 Recommendations to Make Your First Date a Roaring Success
November 18, 2008 by Match Making
Filed under Woman Dating Online
Most guys already know the basics when it comes to dating. Good grooming and being a gentleman can sum it all up.
However, to make that first date a roaring success and make sure that a second date is on the way, following these seven dating tips for guys will surely help.
Ask a woman out once and only once
Asking a woman who is not even interested can make you look desperate and pathetic, and no one likes desperate and pathetic. Sure, some women love to be pursued, but take the hint when all five of your invites have been rejected with a firm No each and every time.
You can usually tell if a woman is interested even if she rejects you the first time if she asks for a rain check. If not, walk away while you still have a bit of dignity left on you.
Good grooming
This tops any list every time. No woman intends to go out with a hobo on a first date, so take a bath, clip your nails, and brush your teeth. Women usually appreciate a good smelling guy more than they appreciate a shiny new convertible (although a convertible has its points, too). A good outfit, one the fits the occasion, is also a must.
Be on time
Keeping your date waiting is a big turn-off and something that you should avoid doing at all costs.
Brush up on your trivia and current affairs
Knowing a bit about what is going in the world can give your date the impression that you watch the news and read the papers from time to time.
What is going on in politics or in entertainment can be excellent conversation topics and can help keep awkward silences at bay.
Cut down on the booze
If you like your alcohol this fact is better revealed later in the relationship. Try not to show off your beer-guzzling prowess on the first date. This might impress your college buddies but it definitely will not win your lovely heart of a lady. Remember that a first date is the worst time to get drunk so drink moderately.
Never expect sex on a first date, especially if you are serious about the girl
A patient man is always a great thing to behold. Also, if you are really serious about this girl you can rest easy on the fact that she does not put out that easily. That may not mean much to other men, but to some, a girl who does not sleep with someone on a first date is often a great find.
Dust up on your manners
The independent woman is the in thing these days, but good manners and chivalry can still melt any independent heart of a woman. Start the date with flowers, open doors, pull out chairs, and know how to eat in plush restaurant if that is where you are planning to go. Treat the waiters and other people with respect, not just the lady you are with. Do not forget to tip sensibly. You do not want to give the impression that you are a complete cheapskate.
Follow these seven dating tips for guys and you will have fewer things to worry about. And most importantly, have fun. Letting a woman know that you are fun to be with adds more points and will get you closer to snagging that second date.
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